Working with the über-talented, Oscar-winning actress, Melissa Leo
Article by Betty Ouyang
[Betty Ouyang serves as a Guest Writer for Dig In Magazine]
For more on Actress Betty Ouyang visit: www.BettyOuyang.com
It was just another gorgeous, sunny day in Los Angeles when I got a call from one of the producers of the film “Frozen River”.
The producer asked me if I would be interested in working as an actress on a low-budget feature that they had already started shooting. She wanted to warn me about a few things first, though.
First, they were shooting in upstate New York, near the Canadian border. (It was February…brrrrrrrr!) She told me that they already had a day or two when they couldn’t even turn the camera on—that kind of cold!
She also mentioned that my character would be doing chase scenes at night, and that at one point, my character would be locked in the trunk of a car, which was slowly sinking into a river of melted ice.
After hearing about the part about being locked in a trunk, I suppose I could have mentioned to the producer that I suffer from mild claustrophobia. But being the optimistic actor that I am, I figured that we would solve all these problems later…with the help of a fantastic crew.
“Sure, sounds great. Sign me up!” I exclaimed enthusiastically to the producer, accepting the role.
The producer went on to explain that although my character would not have officially scripted dialogue, there would be a scene where I would be expected to improvise dialogue…in Chinese, no less!
And finally, she mentioned some of the awesome actors that were already involved in the project. One of the stars was Melissa Leo.
At this time, perhaps Melissa Leo was not yet a household name. But for me—a true lover of independent films—Melissa Leo possessed a talent and resume that were truly enviable!
To me, she was the scene-stealing actress who was in one critically acclaimed indie film after another. “21 Grams” and “The Three Burials of Melquiades Estrada”, to name a couple. And I knew that I could learn so much by watching Melissa on set. Even better, in “Frozen River” I would have the chance to run with her in sub-freezing temperature…while being chased by the local sheriff. How cool was that?!!
So I left 90-degree LA for 8-degree upstate New York. Being originally from New York, I knew how bad winters in the East could get. I packed a whole lot of clothes and thermal underwear—and I was off!
After talking to the producer, I remember thinking to myself that there was something truly special about this film that I was about to embark on. I could feel it in my heart, and in my guts! Not only because of the names that were attached to it. But the story. And the fact that the two leads (played by Melissa Leo and Misty Upham) were two women on the fringes of society. Single and poor. And also that the film revealed something about Mohawk Indian culture, a culture I admittedly knew nothing about. And then my character being Chinese added yet another layer. I was pretty darn excited, to say the least!
I remember the first time I got to meet Melissa. It was the night that we were doing the chase scene. There were four of us actresses, having to run together in the cold darkness! I really appreciated how Melissa took the time to give all of us advice about pacing ourselves. Our scene was emotional and intense, but Melissa reminded us to always be wary about the icy ground and to not let ourselves get carried away. She also gave us a lot of advice on layering and keeping warm, particularly regarding our feet! I really appreciated her nurturing quality, especially since the first couple of days on a feature set can be overwhelming.
When my part in “Frozen River” was officially wrapped a couple of weeks later, I gave Melissa a “good-bye” hug. Never could I have imagined at that moment that the next time I would see her would be after “Frozen River” won Grand Jury Prize at Sundance Film Festival. Nor would I have ever guessed that the film would eventually go on to get two Oscar nominations, including Melissa Leo for “Best Actress”. (Melissa did not win the Oscar that year, but her role as ‘Ray Eddy’ was definitely one of the most talked-about film performances of the year.)
So I guess my Actor’s Intuition was pretty spot-on after all. It steered me to exactly the right place. It brought me to a place where I could observe and learn from some of the best. And cheers, Melissa! Here’s to your prodigious talent, your fearlessness and your kindness in helping to look after “the girls”.
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Melissa sounds like a professional anyone would want to work with. Cudos to you for overcoming the added challenge of personal phobias to make this movie.
Love the article, optimism optimism optimism and tons of energy.
I get so much from people who are passionate about what they do. Bravo to Betty and Melissa and all those who made “Frozen River”.
Great article!
Great job on sharing your perspective on working with Melissa Leo!
I actually saw the movie “Frozen River” and I was very impressed with the great performance of Melissa… I also remember the cute chinese girl (Betty), who also did a great job in her short appearance… Betty, I love your writing!!… There’s something very genuine, direct and beautifully simple, effective and engaging about the narration of your experience on the set… Left me with the hunger of reading your next article… Also, like Jennifer said, because of your contagious optimism…Loved it!!
Congrats Betty. Wonderful that you are getting some great work. I also worked w/ Melissa, just as she was beginning filming on 21 Grams. She did a reading of a Czech play (Minach, by Iva Volankova) at NYTheatre Workshop that I directed. She did an outstanding amount of “homework” and all I had to say was “could you slow down a bit on that paragragh?” And generous with everyone. An amazing actress, and I am so happy that now, 6 years later, she is having the accolades she deserves.
Thanks for sharing this story — it’s very inspiring to people who are trying to break into the business. It’s proof that even the oddest, coldest, claustrophobic gigs on low-budget features can sometimes lead to the most enriching professional experiences.
Looking forward to seeing more of Melissa and Betty, two very talented, down-to-earth women.
An exemplary article written with an intelligent and relaxed style — not easily accomplished. It highlights the talent and genuine human quality of Melissa Leo, but gives insight into the writer as well. To have those things fill a brief article is quite an accomplishment. Just as I hope to see Melissa Leo in more films besides the ones I’ve seen, I hope to both see Betty Quyang in films and read more of her writing again. This article also speaks well for Dig In.